Tuesday, February 9, 2010

The Effectiveness of Childlocks...



Sometimes a picture says it all... It took exactly 5 minutes for a proud Xander to break the newly installed safety lock on the media cabinet.  I think I should write a letter to "Safety First" and let include this photo.  What do you think?

Sunday, January 31, 2010

What a day!

We had a wonderful morning this morning.  Xander slept in, and so did we.  It was lovely.  I had plans to make Erin breakfast this morning, but instead Erin made me breakfast (waffles with blueberries and raspberries!!) while I straightened up around the house.  After a casual morning, we put Xander in the Chariot and hopped on the bikes and headed for Boulder.  We had a relaxing spin into town and stopped at the Dushanbe Teahouse for a wonderful cup of tea and lunch.  I had this amazing dish that I can only describe as chickpea hush puppies in a Persian tomato broth with pomegranate syrup.  Really, it was awesome.  Xander had pancakes and a cup of whole milk.  We tried having him drink from the cup, but we were making such a mess that we tried a straw.  He got sooo close to drinking out of the straw, but never quite got the milk all the way to his mouth.  Instead Erin ended up putting her finger over the end of the straw to transfer milk into his mouth, he thought that was awesome.  Xander charmed all the staff, as usual.  I'm both thrilled and afraid of how charismatic this child is.  If he has everyone wrapped around his finger like this when he is 16 we are all going to be in trouble.  Unfortunately no photos of this trip, but here's a picture of the tea house.  It really is spectacular.


We headed home and Xander took a nap.  I went to move some laundry and found the washer not draining well after washing the dogs blankets.  So, I got out a pipe cleaner to try to clean out the drain tube.  It just wouldn't come clean so, I figured I'd pull the tube out to clean it.  It was only a few screws...

Well, in a project like this one thing leads to another, and after searching for the service manual online, I asked Erin to help and we ended up with the washing machine almost entirely disassembled.  A piece of advice: never, ever, look inside your washing machine, you really don't want to know what's in there.


Yuck!  Once you look, you just can't help yourself.  So, about 2 hours of scrubbing and lots of 409, Tilex and hot soapy water later, we had everything clean.  It was a lot of work to scrub out the entire inside of the washer.

It turns out, while they work great most of the time, an awful lot of people have trouble with a mildew smell in their Maytag Neptnue washers.  We have too, and just made it a point to never leave wet laundry in there, it goes immediately into the dryer.  I think now I know why.  There is all sorts of advice on tricks to get rid of the smell, but from what I saw, nothing but disassembly and a lot of elbow grease is ever going to clean it out.  Anyway, thankfully Xander took a marathon nap after the bike ride, and we finished up just as he was waking up.  

In a whirlwind of pots and pans Erin produced a fantastic quick dinner.  By then it was 8:30 and we were exhausted.  We got Xander into a bath and he decided to try drinking out of a cup again.  He has this set of nesting bath toy cups from Jess McMakin that he likes to play with.  He started filling the cups up and trying to pour them into his mouth.  Boy was he surprised the first time it actually worked.  He coughed and sputtered, then gave me a huge grin and tried again.  I considered that bath water probably wasn't the best thing to drink, but he was just having too much fun!  By the end of the bath he was getting pretty good at filling the cup, bringing it up to his mouth, getting the correct side of the cup in his mouth, and pouring water in.  He was so proud of himself, I was pretty proud too!

It was an eventful day. I'm not sure where all the time went, but it sure went by fast, we still haven't changed out of our bike shorts!

Xander is now asleep and we are headed to bed too, after a shower.  What a day.

-Jake

Thursday, January 28, 2010

I traveled to Rochester and all I got was this lousy inhaler

Call it a learning experience- that's about the best spin I can put on how we've spent the last few days.  This past weekend launched the first step in a fun-filled week and a half of taking advantage of my time off work by visiting family out on the East Coast.  Our first stop was to visit my dear friend, Jess McMakin, her parents, and her daughter (our god-daughter), Ella.  Xander and I had a bit of a cold so I was a little worried about  the plane rides, but he seemed to do pretty well- a little fussing, but not bad.  Later Firday night though, he seemed to be more stuffed up and woke himself up.  By Saturday morning he was breathing harder and was really stuffy.  I dismissed it as nothing more than the cold, but Jess, the experienced mom, heard a wheeze that she peer-pressured me into getting checked out at the local urgent care clinic.  Thank goodness for her- the urgent care clinic heard inflamation in Xanders bronchial tubes, an ear infection, and thought he was having difficulty breathing.  Because this could be serious, they gave him a steroid and alberterol, and told us to take him to the hospital for a few hours of observation.  Of course, at this point, I was a lot more scared- most especially because I hadn't caught what was obviously a big problem! 

Once at the hostpital the doctors and nurses measured Xander's O2 levels and they were low.  When he napped, they dropped lower.  Xander was diagnosed with RSV (Respiratory Syncytial Virus). We don't know where he got it, but it is pretty contagious, and the #1 reason kids are admitted to the hospital this time of year.  RSV generally only produces cold-like symptoms in babies and adults and doesn't require any speicial treatment, but in some babies, can cause bronchiolitis (lung inflamation), pneumonia, and ear infections. Xander unfortunately had a moderately severe case, resulting in bronchiolitis and a double ear infection.  In the ER, they kept him on Oxygen and Albuterol and after spending the day there with no sign of sustained improvement in his oxygen saturation levels, Xander was admitted.  We spent 3.5 days and 2 nights at the hospital in all.  The staff at Strong Memorial hospital was excellent, and took very good care of us.  For most of the time we had a private room (RSV kids are quarentined) and only had to share the last night with another RSV baby.  The crib was big enough to allow me to sleep with Xander, which I did of necessity, because the Albuterol made him hyper, he was tethered to monitors and oxygen, and clingy and anxious about all the pokes and checks.  I've got to give the kid credit though- given everything, he was so good!  Jess's parents took on extra duty with Ella so Jess could be by my side and give me breaks for things like showers.  Jess was such a huge help and source of support, I can't ever thank her enough.  We also had visits from friends Michelle and Linda who brought us goodies, friendship and comfort. Jake and I talked frequently, each time deciding that he should not fly out; Xander and I were in good hands, and would be home soon. 

After being released, we spent an extra 48 hours in Rochester to make sure Xander was well enough to travel, which finally allowed me to spend some fun time with Ella and Jess and her parents in a more relaxed setting.  We played a few games, gave Xander a bath, rested, and made plans to head home.  Ella is growing into a remarkable young lady and is the only 9 year old I've ever met who refers to Heliotropes in casual conversation.  We cancelled the rest of our trip, preferring to go home and see Jake, but I was able to arrange a long layover in Charlotte so Xander and I could visit briefly with my parents and sister Meg and her family, and have dinner together. 

It was wonderful to see the two little boys, only 2 weeks apart in age, playing together.  They were so much the same, and so different too.  Morgan has the cutest tongue-out look of concentration and can stand all by himself and will be walking any day now.  Xander is better with blocks and shapes.  Both like trucks.  I've always thought of myself as a really laid-back parent, calm in the face of possible small injuries from Xander falling or similar things, but Meg and my mother laughed to see me jump every time Morgan fell (towards marble steps!  from a standing position!), got thrown into the air (almost hit the ceiling!) by his dad, or got picked up by his big brother Nate.   Guess I'm not as cool a cucumber as I thought, but I'm assured that I will be soon- Xander will be testing his (and my) limits more and more.   Nate was lots of fun and really wanted to know when we'd be coming to his house and staying longer.  I felt guilty, but promised him, and myself, it would be soon. 
 
Xander now is almost 100% healthy but has an inhaler to help keep his airways clear while he gets rid of the last of the cold, and cannot play with his friends for another week or so.  Jake and I are plotting ways for me to get out of the house.  The chariot will once again be a source of sanity and happiness- we can take long walks, and even meet up with friends for the same.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Blue Hair!

Ok, I've wanted blue hair for forever.  As long as I'm staying at home with Xander for a bit, I decided.... why not?  And as long as I was at it for myself (with help from my friend Eirawen) I thought maybe Xander should have a new look too!


Don't worry!  Xander's is just a little blue gel... mine... well, it'll take time and a lot of chemicals to change.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

A Day at the Butterfly Pavilion

Today we went to the Butterfly Pavilion because they were having a free day in celebration of 15 years of operation.  The place was packed, but we got plenty of time with close-ups, and they had lots of butterflies ready for release that day.  Xander especially liked the spiders, but anything that he could get a close look at was pretty great.... even the dung beetles. 
 Can you believe a butterfly landed on my hand?  I coaxed it to my finger just in time for our friend Martha to snap a photo!

Getting to "Yes"

Xander hasn't figured out how to use sign language yet- other than "pick me up" and the very occassional "all done"
He does understand more and more when we talk to him, in words and in sign language.   Ask the kid if he wants "more" pizza, you'll get this face.



This is Xander, saying "YES!"

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Jake Too!

Last week Jake left us in the good company of Sarah and Leah and headed off to Hunstville, AL where he continued testing and integration of the James Webb Space Telescope.  While this blog has largely dedicated itself to Xander (go figure) it is fun to share some of the neat things his parents are doing too!



Ball Aerospace Ships James Webb Space Telescope Mirror Segments to Marshall Space Flight Center

January 06, 2010: 05:02 PM ET

BOULDER, Colo., Jan. 6 /PRNewswire-FirstCall/ -- Ball Aerospace & Technologies Corp. has shipped five James Webb Space Telescope (JWST) beryllium primary mirror segments as well as the engineering development unit (EDU) to Marshall Space Flight Center, Huntsville, Ala., for cryogenic temperature testing.


(Photo: http://www.newscom.com/cgi-bin/prnh/20100106/LA33512)

Following completion of the six-mirror test in March 2010, nine of the 18 James Webb primary mirror segments will have successfully completed the first of two cryogenic temperature tests required for each mirror at Marshall's X-Ray and Cryogenic Facility (XRCF). The first XRCF test measures distortion of each mirror surface as it cools from room temperature to the Webb telescope's on-orbit operating temperature of approximately 45 K (-380 deg F). This surface distortion is mapped and subsequently removed in the final mirror polishing operations. The second XRCF test performed on each mirror will verify that the warm-to-cold surface distortion has been properly removed in final polishing.

Ball Aerospace is the principal optical subcontractor for the JWST program, led by prime contractor Northrop Grumman Aerospace Systems, under contract to NASA Goddard Space Flight Center. Ball is responsible for developing the telescope optics, including the 18 mirror beryllium segment assemblies that comprise the primary mirror. The primary mirror EDU was cryogenically tested for the first time at the Alabama facility earlier this year and returned to Ball's polishing subcontractor, L-3 SSG-Tinsley, for final polishing. The other five mirrors at Marshall are being prepared for their first cryogenic test scheduled to begin in January 2010. All of the remaining JWST flight mirror segments are in various stages of assembly and test as the observatory continues toward a scheduled launch in 2014.

"We are pleased to continue steady progress for the Webb's optical structure," said Cary Ludtke, vice president and general manager for the Ball Aerospace Civil and Operational Space strategic business unit. "To meet these benchmarks in the methodical and exhaustive testing for JWST's cryogenic design is very satisfying."

The Webb's 6.6-meter beryllium primary mirror is critical for future infrared observations. Each of the 18 hexagonal-shaped mirror assemblies that make up the primary mirror measures more than 1.3 meters across, and weighs approximately 40 kilograms, or 88 pounds, after light-weighting. The temperature testing process for all eighteen JWST primary mirror segments will continue through 2011.

In addition to the primary mirror assemblies, Ball Aerospace is making significant progress on the secondary, tertiary and fine steering mirror assemblies as well as the aft optics bench that supports the tertiary and fine steering mirrors in the telescope.

NASA's James Webb Space Telescope will be the premier observatory of the next decade. It will study every phase in the history of our Universe, ranging from the first luminous glows after the Big Bang, to the formation of our solar systems capable of supporting life on planets like Earth, to the evolution of our own Solar System.

Ball Aerospace & Technologies Corp. supports critical missions of important national agencies such as the Department of Defense, NASA, NOAA and other U.S. government and commercial entities. The company develops and manufactures spacecraft, advanced instruments and sensors, components, data exploitation systems and RF solutions for strategic, tactical and scientific applications. For more information visit www.ballaerospace.com.

Ball Corporation (NYSE: BLL) is a supplier of high-quality metal and plastic packaging for beverage, food and household products customers, and of aerospace and other technologies and services, primarily for the U.S. government. Ball Corporation and its subsidiaries employ more than 14,500 people worldwide and reported 2008 sales of approximately $7.6 billion.

9 month "stats"

Length = 29.5 inches, between percentile 75 and 90

Weight = 23 pounds, 2 ounces (after just eating an 8 oz bottle), between percentile 75 and 90

Head Circumference = 18.375 inches, between percentile 75 and 90
 
Hemoglobin- here's the surprise- 10.2- that's a little low, *especially* since the kid drinks formula and eats meat and fortified cereal.  The doc suspects her quick test machine was off, but has asked we take a few stool samples (make sure Xander isn't lactose intolorant- very unlikely) and give him iron suppliments for a few weeks, then retest.  I've bought some organically based iron drops vs. the mineral based kind so the kid won't get constipated... no one wants that!
 
Otherwise, a very clean bill of health, and as usual she gushed over how well Xander is doing.  Makes us parents feel pretty good!

Thursday, January 7, 2010

0 to 60....Xander is Crawling

According to most websites and advice columns I've read, babies usually get up on their hands and knees around 5 months, then learn to rock, then army crawl,  and finally learn a proper crawl sometime before 10 months.  In Xander's case, he went straight to the army crawl just before Christmas, and then on his 9 month birthday, after spending several days watching Jackson and Leah, just decided to crawl- proficiently- with little in the way of precursers or practice.  The kid crawls.  Everywhere. 

With crawling has come an immediate and, in this mom's opinion, profound change in how *aware* the kid is.  He's so much fun right now because he is learning so fast and is so excited about everything!  He's also at the same time graduating quickly to cruising, and just loves to pull himself up on anything.  He is changing so fast!!

In other news, Xander has actually lost a little weight according to the home scale- and is now 23 pounds.  Still a nice plump number, but it goes to show how active he is all of a sudden.

Night- Night Juice

On the way home from Crested Butte, we got stuck behind a really bad accident which shut down the highway in both directions for awhile.  Sarah and I had two unhappy kids on our hands, so we decided the best thing was to stop in at a local bar and get some food and refreshment. 


The kids thought that this was a good idea.... and the house even offered them some shots of the best stuff they had to help them into dream-land.